Everything's Messy Podcast by Sarah Wilson

#89 Managing Expectations in a "Messy" World

• Sarah Wilson • Season 2 • Episode 89

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 In this episode of Everything’s Messy Podcast, I’m diving deep into the world of expectations—yep, the ones we put on ourselves and the ones everyone else seems to throw our way the second we decide to prioritize our goals.

Let’s be real—sticking to fitness or wellness goals or even financial goals sounds amazing on paper. Until real life steps in with a pile of laundry, a slammed calendar, and someone asking, “What’s for dinner?” when you just sat down to rest. Whether you're juggling work, family, or just the mental load of keeping it all together, the pressure can feel overwhelming. So how do we hold on to our goals when life gets loud and messy?

I break this conversation into three parts: first, how to stay committed to the promises we’ve made to ourselves especially when it comes to self-care. Then, we get into the chaos—distractions, guilt, and that fun little voice in your head telling you to just quit already. I’ll share strategies that have helped me push through the noise without shame or burnout. And finally, we talk boundaries—the loving, firm kind that protect your peace without losing your softness. Because guess what? You can be strong and gentle with yourself. It’s not one or the other.

If you’ve ever struggled with setting a goal and watching it slip away under the weight of everything else, this one’s for you. Grab your sparkling water, and maybe a journal—because this episode might just be the permission slip you didn’t know you needed.

If today’s episode hits home, make sure to go back and check out last week’s convo on hidden triggers that may be contributing to autoimmunity ailments. Check out the free PDF guide about finding the hidden triggers. And hey, I created a free guide to help you stay grounded in your goals, journal through the chaos, and set boundaries without burnout for this episode. You can snag both on my website under Resources or tap the link in bio!

Let’s keep showing up for ourselves, even when life gets loud. One messy moment at a time 💛

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